Try 2 Min Eating Quiz

I Have An Eating Disorder Now What? Eating Disorder Therapist What To Do Next

  • Home
  • /
  • Blog
  • /
  • Binge Eating
  • /
  • I Have An Eating Disorder Now What? Eating Disorder Therapist What To Do Next

Last updated on July 11, 2020

“I Have An Eating Disorder Now What?”

The other day a friend of mine asked me this question…

She had been seeing my posts on facebook and started realizing her relationship with food wasn’t ideal.

But now what?

It’s a great first step to identify you have a problem like an eating disorder.

But now you have to do something about it!

And that’s scary.

interview with eating disorder expert

So I asked Wendy Wright, if I had an eating disorder now what?

Wendy is an eating disorder expert with over 20 years of experience in the field 🙂

She has a free counseling session you can access on her website, and she’s located in Colorado.

And OH My God!!!

I loved our conversation!!!

Here’s what I liked most about our conversation:

  • Wendy used to struggled with an eating disorder for many years and she has been through the trenches! So her advice is proven.
  • Wendy likes skiing and so do I! Just a random tidbit that made me smile 🙂
  • She gives a TON of actionable advice on eating disorders from recognizing them to starting the process of healing.

Wendy says it’s most important to:

Remain curious about eating, and not staying in judgment. It’s hard to trust curiousity, but curious is the way to healing.”

I Have An Eating Disorder Now What?

Here is our transcript:

00:00                                     Yes, this is going to sound cliche, but honestly the way to start is by taking a breath.

00:12                                     Especially if we’re talking to someone who’s gotten the intuitive eating book, has read the book and has connected with even 50% of the book, then …

00:23                                     Start by just allowing space to take a breath.

00:26                                     To be grateful for the increased awareness…

00:33                                     And to start noticing how foods are in charge of you, instead of you being in charge of the foods…

00:51                                     Notice that a sense of constant like fight or flight or panic, like every day you’re supposed to solve this problem and every day you don’t. And so it, you know, it’s very pervasive and so being able to just pause…

01:05                                     And know that you’re okay, it’s going to be okay and you’re about to experience some really change, some change to your life, I think is the best way to start.

Here are a few practical techniques and action steps:

To identify if you have a food struggle:

  1. Notice how much distress food causes you when you “break” a rule or do something “bad”. Ideally, food emotional reactions should be neutral. So if you are having strong emotional reactions to food this could be a warning sign you have an eating disorder
  2. How many thoughts throughout the day are about food? If you constantly think and worry and fret and panic about food, then that’s a sign you might have an eating disorder.
  3. Are you binge eating?

To start the process of Eating Intuitively:

  1. Shift away from judgment and into curiosity. For one week just notice what comes up around food. If you are able to catch yourself eating a bag of chips, in response to a feeling of anger, you’ve already made a lot of progress bringing awareness to your automatic tendencies!
  2. Learn about intuitive eating

To understand and release the fear of eating “unhealthy”:

  1. It can be scary to start to eat foods you previously forbid yourself. You might think “I’ll be eating donuts 10 years from now”! But let’s test that hypothesis. You probably will start tiring of donuts much quicker than that!!!
  2. Wendy said the process of eating foods you forbid and normalizing them, in longer situations, takes a few months. In my experience, most people see a dramatic relief almost right away.
  3. Learn health at every size principles
the 'bible' of intuitive eating
Affiliate link to purchase book

Finally, I want to wrap up this article by sharing a story that Wendy shared …

She was having a hard time in life, to say the least. Divorce, housing problems, two kids, career change, etc, etc. She’d been struggling with an eating disorder for years …

And she decided to call one of the founders of Intuitive Eating, Elyse.

Elyse just said “You’re OK.”

Lastly, if you haven’t seen my article on Weight Watchers, where I dive into the ‘science’ Weight Watcher’s uses to support their weight loss claims, I highly suggest you do so!

Basically, Weight Watcher’s uses ‘science’ that only lasts up to 12 months and they conveniently forget to mention all the negative side effects of dieting! And this is on their own website too! Click here to read more.

Getting over dieting and treating yourself right is ultimately how to stop eating so much and lose weight.

“I have an eating disorder now what?” podcast below

Oh and one last thing!
Are you looking for more advanced training tools to heal binge and emotional eating?
There's an Eating Training Toolkit I'd like to share with you. 
Enter your email and get Three Free Eating Training Tools
1- Miracle Binge Eating Interview
2- Mindful Eating Mp3 & Guide
3 - Intuitive Eating
Ebook

__CONFIG_colors_palette__{"active_palette":0,"config":{"colors":{"5e279":{"name":"Fun Blue","parent":-1}},"gradients":[]},"palettes":[{"name":"Default","value":{"colors":{"5e279":{"val":"var(--tcb-skin-color-0)"}},"gradients":[]},"original":{"colors":{"5e279":{"val":"rgb(31, 85, 173)","hsl":{"h":217,"s":0.69,"l":0.4,"a":1}}},"gradients":[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__
__CONFIG_colors_palette__{"active_palette":0,"config":{"colors":{"3e1f8":{"name":"Main Accent","parent":-1}},"gradients":[]},"palettes":[{"name":"Default Palette","value":{"colors":{"3e1f8":{"val":"var(--tcb-local-color-5e279)"}},"gradients":[]},"original":{"colors":{"3e1f8":{"val":"rgb(19, 114, 211)","hsl":{"h":210,"s":0.83,"l":0.45}}},"gradients":[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__
Yes! Send Me My Tools Now!

Finally, I'd love to hear from you with any questions or comments. I always reply! 

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked

{"email":"Email address invalid","url":"Website address invalid","required":"Required field missing"}

Related Posts